5 Things I Did Right After My Life Changed Forever

Almost 4 years ago my whole world came crashing down in every heartbreaking way I could fathom. I was faced with the reality that my 18 year marriage felt like a lie and the betrayal and pain I experienced was beyond comprehension. I lost my job due to my husbands choices, lost many of the people I thought would be my friends for life, lost my community and my safety. The life I knew was truly gone forever. To compound the pain, we had a very public platform and life and our situation was heavily judged and criticized and became a media target . I felt like everywhere I would turn, people were judging me and my husband and I experienced a feeling many have felt: I don’t know what to do.

I was so broken from my marriage betrayal alone, I felt like the pain would never end. My mind was filled with thoughts and scenarios I couldn’t escape and I was exhausted! By God’s grace, I was lovingly reminded in that dark season that I “don’t have to do it all.” My life didn’t explode suddenly and it wont be healthy suddenly. So when it came to somehow finding me again, my life again, my health again, I embraced the “every day” journey. On that journey I am reminded of how important practical information is for anybody, especially women who have experienced a life change so explosive that you feel your whole life is disoriented. I have needed it, need it and im sure you do to! I have not made all the right choices but I am certain the following ones I talk about here, concreted my path towards health. Here is how I began to find my life again….

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